#MensRelationshipRules

#MensRelationshipRules

-Written by J. Wiggins and James Cooper



This blog post is for GROWN MEN... You are free to enjoy this post ladies but this is designed to teach our brothas something. Please don't interrupt this process ladies. Feel free to email this blog to the men in your life so that they can learn a thing or two. You are also free to send to your female friends so that can evaluate their own personal standards and make some necessary self assessments. Enjoy !!



1) Stop asking ladies that are already in a committed relationship if they can have "friends"... You would be pissed if your woman had a bunch of "friends" that are just waiting around for YOU to mess up so that they can put that MEAT in her.

2) When you are in a relationship, buy her flowers just because it is TUESDAY... Trust me..

3) Foreplay is IMPORTANT... Foreplay isn't having her sit on the couch while you and your homies play Call of Duty/Madden. Learn your woman's body. Ask questions. Explore her. God made her for YOU.

4) Date/talk to women that you are interested in. That doesn't mean that you need to take every woman you meet out to dinner and a movie. That is a dumb first date in my opinion. Do something that will give her a chance to let her know what makes you so special. Having a conversation is the easiest way to tell if you are dealing with a woman that is worthy of your time.

5) Stop lying... There are woman that don't want anything else than a relationship and there are other women that would love to give you no more than the best head you have ever had in your life. The moral of the story is that no matter what you are looking for, there is a woman out there that wants the exact same thing. Just be honest and keep looking.

6) Every woman has a past just like you do. Asking in depth specifics about her ex will do nothing but make you feel insecure every time he is around. There is a reason why HE is the EX and you are the new guy. Keep your judgments to a minimum.

7) If you are interested in a woman for more than just sex, call/text her before 11pm. Real recognizes REAL... and REAL LATE recognizes booty call.

8) You don't need to be meeting the kids if you know you aren't serious about her. Kids have feelings too and they usually fall in love with you before the woman does.

9) You ASK you PAY... There is no "going dutch" unless you guys have already discussed it and have a clear understanding of the expectations. Ladies should NEVER ask a man on a date IF she doesn't plan on paying. Refer back to #4. This shouldn't be an issue if you have already had an in depth conversation about expectations.

10) Open doors for her... Walk on the side of the sidewalk that is closest to the street to protect her. sleep on the outside of the bed to protect her. A real woman will understand that and will allow you to take the lead.

11) She doesn't care about your Jordans, cars, or name brand clothing... However, she does care about how you treat your mother, how you take care of your kids, and your hygiene. Get your priorities together.

12)  The quickest way to get a woman wet is to show her honest you are and let her know that you are there to help and protect her. With that being said, stop sending d*ck pics...

13) Never tell a woman, "I Love You" when you really just LIKE her food and enjoy her sex. That is what chumps do.

14) Don't try to solve all of her problems all the time. You can't save the world and sometimes you just have to let her put on her big girl panties. Besides, most of the time women just want someone that they can talk to without judgment. Just listen to her and she will love you for it.

Fellas, these rules do not apply to ratchets, hoes, jumpoffs, gold diggers, rats, scallywops, and wholly who's... lol... ENJOY !!!

-J. Wiggins + James Cooper